Although it is easy to feel that men don't get the same range of exciting toys that women have available, don't get discouraged. Nowadays men have plenty of options. Once such popular category of male sex toy is the male masturbator.

Male masturbators come in all sizes and functions. They typically consist of some form of "sleeve that you insert your penis into" for pleasure.

Common considerations when picking a male masturbator include:

• 🤖 Manual or hands free / automatic?
• 📳 Vibrating?
• ♻️ Disposable or reusable?
• ⚙️ Uses consumable parts that will require replacing?
• 💦 Waterproof rating. Some modern electronic masturbators will not be suitable for the shower.

Disposable masturbators

Our pick: Tenga Egg Masturbator

Initially popularised in Japan, small disposable egg-shaped masturbators became a big favourite of many men. These manual masturbators have a textured sleeve inside the egg that induces various types of pleasure. TENGA is the most popular manufacturer of these eggs, and makes them with a variety of internal textures. Despite the compact travel-ready size, the stretchy material allows the eggs to fit most penis sizes (upto ~7-8 inches in length).

The bottom edge of the egg has an opening for the penis to be stroked (after lubricating with the included lube). After finishing, simply dispose of the egg. If washed and treated carefully sometimes the eggs can be used a number of times before needing to be discarded.

The egg variety pack is an affordable way to try six different textures. Otherwise the eggs are available for purchase individually.

Our premium pick: Tenga Dual Sensation Cup

Our premium pick is another similar product from TENGA. The TENGA Dual Sensation Cup is approximately the size of a 500mL beer can, is made internally of a thicker textured material, and comes generously pre-lubricated. While the pre-lubrication makes this toy a little messier, the main feature of this product is the double-entry design.

Unscrewing the caps at both ends exposes two holes. This allows the product to have a "tough side" for firmer pressure and a "tender side" to stimulate more gently - depending on which end you insert into.

Fleshlight masturbators

Fleshlight's are a popular brand of male masturbator that consists of a flesh-like sleeve inside a torch-shaped plastic housing. The toys are washable and reusable. They can be heated in reasonably hot water to add to the realism.

Our value pick: Satisfyer Men Classic

From the manufacturer of many famous sex toys for bodies with vaginas, the Satisfyer Men Classic is our affordable pick. You can purchase one for almost half the price of the name-brand Fleshlight masturbators.

The toy has an adjustable pressure regular so you can adjust how much force you are thrusting with for optimum suction. A couple of additional textured sleeves are available to purchase.

The sleeve is made of the same realistic-feeling TPU material as the Fleshlight's, but doesn't come in the wide variety of styles, textures and colours.

Honorable mention: Quickshot: Vantage

A similar concept to the egg masturbators mentioned above, the Quickshot: Vantage is a compact reusable sleeve by Fleshlight. The mini sleeve comes with a compact case and sleeve caps for each end making it perfect for travel. Although the sleeve has an insertable length of only 3.5 inches, the open-ended design makes it possible to stimulate the full length of the penis.

Our premium pick:  Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit "Pink Lady"

The Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit range are made to be tighter than the original fleshlights, with fine textures and ribbing that feels great. This toy is a great way to practice and increase your sexual stamina, allowing you to last longer with your partner. It even comes with a complimentary e-booklet containing several training routines.

These fleshlight sleeves are made with their patented SuperSkin™ technology that makes it to feel just like the real thing. Just like our value pick, an adjustable vent at the end of the fleshlight allows the suction pressure to be adjusted.

At a similar size to a fleshlight, and with a similar appearance, these fleshlights are discrete and won't raise any eyebrows when packed away.

Fleshlight sells other fleshlights for those that are willing to spend extra to have the opening modeled after their favourite acresses/actors - each with a uniquely designed internal texture.

This includes popular actors/actresses such as Riley Reid, Stoya, Tori Black, Alexis Texas, Colby Keller, Boomer Banks, and more.

Vibrating masturbators

Our overall pick: Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Essential

Also known as a "Guybrator", the Pulse Solo Essential is a hand-free male vibrator that attaches near the head of the penis. The toy is fully waterproof and boasts strong vibrations thanks to their multi-award-winning patented PulsePlate technology. Apply some lube and the device can even be used as a stroker.

The toy has an internal rechargeable battery. It can last approx. 1hr of vibration on a single charge.

Because of its soft expanding silicone wings, the Pulse Solo Essential is comfortable and can fit a wide range of penis sizes and girths. This unique design will mean that it cannot be used in conjunction with other male toys.

Our luxury pick: Lelo F1S V2

The Lelo F1S V2 is a hybrid masturbator with one open end. It is a combination of a conventional vibrating masturbator, and an airwave masturbator (discussed more further down). It is waterproof, provides high quality vibrations, and has a body-safe soft silicone sleeve. This is differs from the TPE material used by the fleshlights we mentioned above. The device is made a little harder to properly clean by its non-removable sleeve.

At ~4.4 inches in length, the sleeve is not designed to hold your entire member.

The device can be used without any app by using the simple buttons on the toy. There is also apps for iOS and Android that allow finer control of your pleasure - although they have mixed reviews. Regardless of this, a big selling point is flexibility for the geeky. The Lelo F1S V2 allows the user to create custom pleasure experiences via the SDK they released.

Automatic masturbators

Automatic masturbators come in a variety of forms. Typically they have some electronics/motors to allow hands-free pleasure.

Automatic suction masturbators

Suction masturbators typically consist of some form of penis sleeve that is connected to a vacuum suction pump. This allows these masturbators to realistically simulate a sucking motion by varing this vacuum.

Our value pick: VeDo Hummer 2.0

The VeDo Hummer 2.0 is great value for an automatic suction masturbator. It includes a 5-inch textured stroker that is removable with 10 vibrating settings for different sensations. In addition to the vibration-modes there are 8 completely automated (and speed-adjustable) suction modes in unpredictable four-minute long patterns. Each of these four-minute patterns are designed to let you place the device over your penis, recline, shut your eyes, and picture getting a blowjob from someone else.

The suction requires too much power to be battery-powered, so hence needs to be plugged into a wall outlet while in use. This device is not waterproof.

Our luxury pick: Lovebotz The Milker Deluxe Stroker Masturbation Machine

This is the most expensive product mentioned on this page.

The Milker Automatic Deluxe Stroker Machine is a very advanced hands free male masturbation machine. The Milker consists of a large black box (resembling a toolbox) with a couple of detachable hoses that attach to the side. This device has a similar appearance and concept to our value pick above, just larger and more powerful.

A "huff and puff effect," as the business calls it, is produced within the black box by a powerful vacuum motor and pressure valves. In essence, the vacuum draws your penis into the tube located in between the lifelike rubber skins (huff), and the pressure valves force it back out (puff).  This creates a feeling of being nearly simultaneously sucked and stroked. Two cylinders—one longer and one shorter—come in the box. The short cylinder is perfect for using on a woman’s clit or breasts. This toy has many uses.

The box is about 8 inches broad, 11 inches long, and 11 inches tall. It is thus impracticable for travel and more difficult to covertly hide.

Automatic stroking masturbators

Our pick: Fleshlight Universal Launch

Made for use with a full size Fleshlight (not included) this device is great for hands-free stroking. It comes in a unique and ergonomic package with handle bars on each side of the stroking mechanism. The top of the toy has a phone mount for your viewing pleasure.

The stroking chamber can operate at speeds up to 250 strokes per minute. This can be adjusted via the physical buttons available on the handle bars.

The Universal Launch is rechargeable and lasts about an hour on a 90 minute charge. The device can still be operated while charging. Unfortunately like most automatic masturbators featured, this toy is not waterproof.

Honorable mention: The Handy

Higher quality and with more speed and power, but doesn't have a full enclosure - hence not as easy to use hands-free. Has some flexibility with sleeves, some people have made and sell adapters that allow use with a full-size fleshlight.

The product of a Norwegian sex toy start-up and hence isn't distributed very widely. We haven't seen any New Zealand retailers stock this product.

Our luxury pick: Autoblow AI

This one will put you back a pretty penny, but excellence comes at a price. The Autoblow AI has been touted by many as the masturbator that gives the most realistic blowjob-feel.

The Autoblow AI has 10 modes, including an artificial intelligence feature (that toggles between the many modes randomly). A handy pause/edging button allows you to quickly halt the pleasure. It has a silicone removable inner sleeve that is ridged and accomodates upto 8.46" of insertable length. The device typically comes with a mouth-styled sleeve, but anal/vaginal sleeves replacement sleeves are also available.

Unfortunately this luxury pick focuses primarily on the pleasure mechanism - the device is not waterproof, is not very compact, and has no rechargeable battery (must be wall-powered). Regardless, if you want a mind-blowing blowjob experience this is the toy for you.

Automatic airwave masturbators

Our pick: Arcwave Ion Masturbator

Airwave masturbators are a novel product that use "pulsating airwaves" to stimulate the frenulum of the penis. Some have compared this to clitoris suckers - but for men.

The Arcwave Ion has an open-ended design that has a ribbed canal to insert your manhood. Not all men will be satisfied by this toy if you dislike frenulum vibrations or have a penis that is substantially larger/smaller than normal.

Compact and discrete. Fully waterproof, and USB rechargeable. Made from body-safe silicone, this masturbator is surprisingly easily to clean.

Automatic VR masturbators

For when you want to be part of the on-screen action.

Our pick: Kiiroo Keon

The Kiiroo Keon has many of the same specifications on paper as our other picks for "Automatic stroking masturbators". The Keon is an automatic stroker that has a removable sleeve (that can even be used with full size Fleshlight sleeves). It is rechargeable with approx 2 hours of battery life, and can reach speeds up to 250 strokes per minute.

The big difference with the Kiiroo Keon is the VR/social features.

Other masturbators on this list can be used in conjunction with a VR headset, but this one additionally allows the masturbator to be synced with the action showed on screen. You can become part of the action by connecting to the Keon via Bluetooth and watching compatible porn (from sites including NaughtyAmerica and FeelXVideos). You can also have intimate moments with your partner remotely by syncing the toy with their other products such as the Kiiroo Onyx 2 or the Kiiroo Pearl 2.